Love is what bring happiness. Unfortunately, we lack love and therefore we can not have happiness or bring happiness to others. We live doing what we want and what we get is momentary satisfaction, not happiness. If what we want is of selfish, greed, jealousy, hatred, favoritism, prejudice, we end up hurting others. Because we all do it so we all suffer. To stop suffering and have happiness, we have to forget ourselves and come to God for love. Forgetting ourselves seem like a big loss but is truly a great gain. Forgetting ourselves means we are not going to do what we want if it is of selfishness, greed, jealousy, hatred, favoritism, prejudice and therefore we do not hurt others. Forgetting ourselves get rid of all the times we think of ourselves, of what we want, of how others have hurt us which take us away from reality, make our minds tired, make us suffer. Forgetting ourselves alone doesn't bring us happiness but is a necessary step. The next step to happiness is love. We can get love from thinking about God. When we think about God, we know and feel love and when we ask for love, God then give us love. If we don't think about God, we are not going to know or feel love. When we forget ourselves and have love from God, it's like we lose ourselves but gain far much better, happy selves.